Wedding Packages at Alexander House

Designed by our Wedding Experts

Whether your dream is to have an intimate ceremony with a couple of witnesses or an all-inclusive celebration with 80 day guests and 120 evening guests, we have the perfect packages for you. Bringing together the venue, food, drinks, ceremony and costings, all that's left for you to do is give us any special requests for your Bridal Suite. Pricing listed is correct for 2023 dates.

Why not carry on the celebrations with a night of luxury at Alexander House? Your weddings guests can enjoy up to 40% off our published bed & breakfast rates, depending on the season, to really celebrate in style. Speak to your wedding coordinator for more details.

Design your dream wedding

For couples who are looking for a wedding day like no other.

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    Bespoke wedding package

    Create the wedding of your dreams by building your very own bespoke package at Alexander House. We understand that no two couples are the same and if you would like something that truly reflects your style, our dedicated wedding coordinators would love to help. Get in touch with them today to start creating your unique wedding and to discuss your ideas in more detail.

To Have & To Hold

For couples looking for a flexible package our To Have & To Hold package is perfect.  Ideal for couples looking for a day time reception there is also the opportunity to extend the celebrations into the evening with a separate evening reception package.

From £150 per person based on 20 - 80 guests attending.

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    Package Inclusions 

    Pre-Wedding:

    • Complimentary menu tasting for two
    • Your dedicated wedding planner to help you plan your perfect day


    On Your Big Day:

    • Ceremony room hire - either your special location on the grounds, the Gazebo or the Shelley Suite
    • Exclusive use of the Shelley suite including the private bar, garden and terrace until 5pm
    • Toastmaster role conducted by our Banqueting Manager
    • Two reception drinks: Sparkling Wine, Pimm's, Bucks Fizz or Bellini
    • Four course wedding breakfast including coffee and petit fours
    • Half a bottle of wine
    • Our pure, filtered water
    • A glass of House Champagne for the toasts
    • Hire of red carpet, cake stand and knife
    • Preferential bedroom rates for you and your guests
    • Complimentary parking whilst on honeymoon


    From £150 per person depending on the time of year & day of the week.

    Maximum capacity is 80 day guests

Exclusively Yours

For couples dreaming of a wedding with all the bells & whistles, our Exclusively Yours package is the perfect fit.

From £13,000 based on 50 guests.

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    Available 7 days a week, our Exclusively Yours package includes everything you need to have a truly wonderful wedding day, with every detail thought of.  Available from £13,000 (pricing varies depending on the time of year) and based on 50 guests, the package is the perfect choice for couples wanting a luxurious day, perfectly crafted by our experienced wedding planners.

    Package Inclusions 

    Pre-Wedding:

    • Complimentary menu tasting for two
    • Accommodation in a luxury bedroom with breakfast on the eve of your big day, which includes use of Utopia Spa
    • Your dedicated wedding planner to help you plan your perfect day


    On Your Big Day:

    • Ceremony room hire - either your special location on the grounds, the Gazebo or the Shelley Suite
    • Exclusive use of the Shelley suite including the private bar, garden and terrace
    • Chair covers with sash or chiavari chairs
    • Starlight backcloth running the length of the Shelley Suite
    • Beautiful handmade professional stationery (place cards, table plan, menus and table  names)
    • Professional Toastmaster to coordinate your day
    • Two reception drinks: Sparkling Wine, Pimm's, Bucks Fizz or Bellini
    • Four canapés
    • Four course wedding breakfast including coffee and petit fours
    • Half a bottle of wine
    • Our pure, filtered water
    • A glass of Rosé Champagne or House Champagne for the toasts
    • Hire of red carpet, cake stand and knife
    • Evening buffet for 50 guests
    • DJ, Disco and white LED dance floor until midnight
    • The Wedding Suite on the evening of your wedding with breakfast the following morning
    • Two luxury bedrooms for your chosen guests with breakfast the following morning
    • Preferential bedroom rates for your guests
    • Complimentary parking whilst on honeymoon


    Available from £13,000 based on 50 day guests and 50 evening guests. Price varies by time of year.

    Additional day guests can be added at £125 per adult | Additional evening guests can be added from £40 per adult
    Teenagers £50 | Children under 12 years £25
    Maximum capacity is 80 day guests and 120 evening guests

On The Quiet

For couples looking for a very intimate occasion, our 'On the Quiet' package is ideal for an indulgent relaxed day for the bride & groom and up to 14 guests.

From £1,725 based on two guests (being the happy couple).

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    Available Sunday - Thursday (October to March and Monday - Thursday (April to September), our On the Quiet package is based on two guests, being the happy couple, with the opportunity to increase this to up to 16 guests in total.

    Package Inclusions (for two)

    • Civil ceremony and reception room hire (with a choice of your special location on the grounds, the Wedding Gazebo, The Asquith or The Churchill Suite, depending on your guest numbers)
    • Up to 12 photographs with our recommended photographer
    • Glass of Champagne & four canapes
    • Four course wedding breakfast with coffee and petit fours
    • Glass of Champagne for the toast
    • A bottle of wine with the wedding breakfast
    • Our pure, filtered water
    • A Junior Suite on the evening of your wedding including full English breakfast the following morning and access to Utopia Spa
    • A bottle of Champagne in your suite

    From £1,500 per couple

    Including all of the above except accommodation (and the champagne which accompanies the suite), extra guests to a total wedding party size of 16 can be added at £125 per person.

New Year's Eve 2023

A New Year's Eve wedding in the Shelley & Wakehurst - the ultimate party with glamour, glitter and sparkle; all the perfect ingredients for a New Year's Eve to remember! The package is designed for 50 guests, although further guests can be added

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    Package Inclusions

    • Complete exclusivity of the Shelley Suite including private bar, garden and terrace
    • Selection of 4 canapés on arrival
    • Two glasses of Winter Pimm's or sparkling wine
    • Four course wedding breakfast including coffee and petit fours
    • Half a bottle of wine and our pure filtered water
    • Glass of house Champagne for the toast
    • Glass of bubbles at midnight
    • Classic evening buffet
    • DJ and disco until 1am
    • Handmade professional stationery (place cards, table plan, menus and table names)
    • The Wedding Suite on your wedding night with full English breakfast the following morning
    • Toastmaster role conducted by our Banqueting Manager
    • Complimentary menu tasting for the Bride and Groom
    • Hire of cake stand and knife & red carpet
    • Starlight cloth behind the top table
    • Chair covers with sash to complement your colour scheme or chiavari chairs
    • Dedicated wedding coordinator to assist with planning

    £14,500 based on 50 guests

    Additional guests can be added from £135 per person, or you can have fewer guests provided that a minimum spend of £14,500 is reached.

Love at Twilight

For couples looking for a later wedding ceremony and relaxed evening party this is the package for you.

From £6,500, based on 50 guests.

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    Available Sunday - Friday.

    Package Inclusions

    • Civil ceremony and evening reception room hire with exclusive use of the Shelley Suite, Gazebo, private bar and terrace from 5pm until midnight
    • Two arrival drinks: Sparkling Wine, Pimm's, Bucks Fizz or Bellini
    • Hot & Cold Buffet menu (classic menu includes with upgrades available)
    • DJ, Disco and white LED dance floor until midnight

    Available from £6,500 based on 50 guests attending

    Additional guests can be added at £50 per adult
    Teenagers £50 | Children under 12 years £25
    Maximum capacity is 120 evening guests