Winter Weddings at Alexander House, West Sussex

Tailored for you

At Alexander House we offer bespoke pricing uniquely designed to ensure that your wedding dreams become a reality. In the winter months, as the fires are lit and as the snow falls, so do our hire prices - it is the most cost-effective time to hold the wedding of your dreams, with up to 35% off (vs high season) our Exclusively Yours package and up to 18% on Love at Twilight.

So, let yourself imagine the scent of gluhwein and wood smoke in the air, and the twinkle of fairy lights and candles... and begin planning your winter wonderland wedding!

We want to give our couples the freedom to plan their perfect wedding. We offer a number of wedding packages to allow you to dream your day up exactly how you wish, so you can choose precisely what you would like to have during each stage of the day.  This enables you to personalise your special day for a more bespoke celebration.

Our wedding package pricing varies according to the time of year and day of the week.  Pick your date to find the applicable room hire charge and then start designing your very own day...

Our Wedding Package Prices

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    January, February, March & November 2023 - 2025

    Save up to 35% on our Exclusively Yours package & up to 18% on Love at Twilight for your winter wedding!

    Exclusively Yours
    Day 2023 2024 2025
    Monday to Thursday £10,000 £11,000 £11,500
    Sunday and Friday £10,500 £11,500 £12,075
    Saturday £11,000 £12,000 £12,650



    Love at Twilight
    Day 2023 2024 2025
    Monday to Thursday £5,500 £6,500 £7,475
    Sunday and Friday £6,000 £7,000 £8,050
    Saturday £6,500 £7,500 £8,550

Exclusively Yours


For couples dreaming of a wedding with all the bells & whistles, our Exclusively Yours package is the perfect fit

  • What's Included?

    Our Exclusively Yours package includes everything you need to have a truly wonderful wedding day, with every detail thought of.  Available from £10,000 (this Winter) and based on 50 guests, the package is the perfect choice for couples wanting a luxurious day, perfectly crafted by our experienced wedding planners.

    Package Inclusions 


    • Complimentary menu tasting for two
    • Accommodation in a luxury bedroom with breakfast on the eve of your big day, which includes use of Utopia Spa
    • Your dedicated wedding planner to help you plan your perfect day

    On Your Big Day:

    • Ceremony room hire - either your special location on the grounds, the Gazebo or the Shelley Suite
    • Exclusive use of the Shelley suite including the private bar, garden and terrace
    • Chair covers with sash or chiavari chairs
    • Starlight backcloth running the length of the Shelley Suite
    • Beautiful handmade professional stationery (place cards, table plan, menus and table  names)
    • Professional Toastmaster to coordinate your day
    • Two reception drinks: Sparkling Wine, Pimm's, Bucks Fizz or Bellini
    • Four canapés
    • Four course wedding breakfast including coffee and petit fours
    • Half a bottle of wine
    • Our pure, filtered water
    • A glass of Rosé Champagne or House Champagne for the toasts
    • Hire of red carpet, cake stand and knife
    • Evening buffet for 50 guests
    • DJ, Disco and white LED dance floor until midnight
    • The Wedding Suite on the evening of your wedding with breakfast the following morning
    • Two luxury bedrooms for your chosen guests with breakfast the following morning
    • Preferential bedroom rates for your guests
    • Complimentary parking whilst on honeymoon

    Available from £10,000 based on 50 day guests and 50 evening guests. Price varies by time of year.

    Additional day guests can be added at £125 per adult | Additional evening guests can be added from £40 per adult
    Teenagers £50 | Children under 12 years £25
    Maximum capacity is 80 day guests and 120 evening guests

Love At Twilight


For couples looking for a later wedding ceremony and relaxed evening party this is the package for you

  • What's Included?

    Package Inclusions

    • Civil ceremony and evening reception room hire with exclusive use of the Shelley Suite, Gazebo, private bar and terrace from 5pm until midnight
    • Two arrival drinks: Sparkling Wine, Pimm's, Bucks Fizz or Bellini
    • Hot & Cold Buffet menu (classic menu includes with upgrades available)
    • DJ, Disco and white LED dance floor until midnight

    Available from £5,500 based on 50 guests attending. Price varies by time of year.

    Additional guests can be added at £50 per adult
    Teenagers £50 | Children under 12 years £25
    Maximum capacity is 120 evening guests

Start designing your perfect day using our ideas, menus, drinks lists etc below.  As always our wedding planners are available to offer support and so feel free to send an e-mail with any queries.

Drinks Beside the Fire

Waiters circulating with steaming glasses of mulled wine, the fragrance of spice in the air and the flicker of candle light, with delicious warming canapés and roaring open fires - a grand reception on a crisp Winter's day.

Our wine and canapé lists are below but if your favourite isn't listed just let us know. We recommend allowing for two  - three drinks per person and offering two alcoholic and one non alcoholic options.

A Foodie Feast

Take your seats to a roar of applause and prepare for a feast.  Head Chef Darrel Wilde has devised some superb menus, which reflect the seasons.  All you need to do is select one starter, one main course and of course a dessert.  We are, of course very happy to cater for any vegetarians or guests with allergies or other special dietary requirements separately.  Add up the dishes you choose and that is the cost of your meal.  We include a menu tasting for two a few months prior to your wedding so you can feel confident that you've chosen exactly the right dishes.

Wines with your Wedding Breakfast

No meal would be complete without some fabulous wines to complement the wonderful food.  Our cellar is extensive and if you need some advice our Sommelier is always delighted to offer assistance either in the lead up to your wedding or at your menu tasting.  He will ensure that the wines you select match the dishes you have chosen and most importantly keep within your budget.  We suggest you allow for ½ to ¾ of a bottle per person, not forgetting a non alcoholic option too.

Your speeches can he held either once all guests are seated, after the starter or main course or at the end of your meal - the choice is yours and you may wish to consider which Champagne or sparkling wine you would like us to serve for the toasts.

Dance the Night Away

It's time to strike up the band - it's party time! Steal a sparkling moment outside with your guests and then dance the night away. Perhaps some guests will take to the dance floor whilst others may relax out in the Garden or Gazebo - either way, it's time to celebrate!

All that dancing (and maybe a little drinking) needs fuelling - choose from pizzas on the terrace, or perhaps a hog roast, grazing table or cheeseboards tickle your fancy?

A New Year's Eve Wedding

What could be more glamorous than a wedding on New Year's Eve surrounded by friends & family enjoying a party atmosphere?

Think sparkling candlelight, warming log fires and Champagne toasts at midnight...

You'll have complete exclusivity of the Shelley Suite including private bar, garden and terrace, the Wedding Suite on your wedding night along with a lot more for £14,500 based on 50 guests


A Little More Info...

Bank Holiday Sundays are charged as a Saturday & Bank Holiday Mondays as a Sunday. Easter Thursday is charged as a Friday and Good Friday as a Saturday.

Honeymoon Suite: With our Exclusively Yours package, our Honeymoon Suite will be reserved for the night of your wedding on a complimentary basis. It will be made available from 3pm on the day of the wedding. With our Love at Twilight package, our Honeymoon Suite is available at a discounted rate.

Guest Bedrooms: Once your contract has been received you will be issued with a booking code which can be used by your guests to book bedrooms online at a discounted rate.  Your unique code is also valid for reservations the night before and the night after the wedding.  Your code will expire one month prior to the wedding date.

Check-in is from 3pm on the day of arrival and we ask that all bedrooms are vacated by 11am the following day. We are unable to guarantee any early check-ins. If guests would like to guarantee that their room is ready prior to 3pm they will need to reserve their room for the night prior if available.  Any additional / Z-beds are charged at £50 per child (under 12 years only), per night including breakfast. There is no charge for a cot to be placed in any rooms.

Changing Room: We don't offer a changing room but an early check-in is available on a limited number of rooms for a supplement charge.

Please speak to your Wedding Planner for alternative recommendations if required.